Pure You

Did you know that the ‘normal’ person can hide who they are for up to 9 months. After this time, their true colors come forth! So the person you are with, might change at this point and they are no longer who you thought they were, and this is because they aren’t the person you thought, it was an act and you now know who they really are.

Have you seen “Runaway Bride”? I love the part at the end where Maggie explains why she runs or rides away from the groom on the wedding day. She convinced him that she was everything he wanted in a wife, but she really wasn’t who he thought she was and it wouldn’t be fair for either of them. Personally I think that she could have broken up with him sooner than the wedding day, but it makes it a good movie ;D

I admit, I have been there. Not the run away bride part, but the acting part. I wanted to be with this one guy so much that I changed myself so that I would be more ‘suited’ for him. After some time, it became too much. All the pretending and not being the real me; it wasn’t right and I had to end it! It was all for the best.

Many years had past and I was minding my own business so to speak in life and I was doing ok. I became fast friends with this boy at work and we started doing everything together. We had a total blast!!! Never did I have so much fun with the opposite sex before! We hung out, went on dates, flirted at work 24/7, and all in good fun!

Well, as luck would have it, we fell completely and madly in love with each other!!! <3 It was nothing short of complete bliss! This was a mature relationship. The chemistry we had was phenomenal! Being best friends, there was no bull crap, there was no lies, there was no act! Right from the gecko, from “Hi I’m Adam” (handshake) “Emma, howdy!” we only knew the real person.

This was my best and favorite relationship I was in! I didn’t put up a front and he never lied to me. We grew to know and only know the most real and pure self of the other. This is one of the many reason to why we were so happy and lived in a blissful dream!

I wish all relationships started this way. It would end a lot of broken hearts and fights that were unnecessary.

Just be real and keep it real. If you want a good healthy, blissful relationship, show the one you care about or love the pure you and ask it for them.

You are to be with the one that knows the pure you and you know the pure them. It makes life so much easier and gives it so much more meaning. If you can't be the purest you, the relationship isn't worth having. . .  I hope that you will find that person that you can feel that you can be your purest self too and be happy! I know I was =D